INTRODUCTION.
To many dating is viewed as a mean of romantic
entertainment, a fun activity. then to some it may mean a different thing,
spending some time to someone you like of the opposite sex. Dating is also a
legitimate way for two people to get to know each other. Now the question is
ARE WE TO DATE?
THE URGE.
As we may know during this time you feel urges of sexual
desire. There is nothing wrong with this, it is a part of maturity.
But there in lies a big problem with teenage dating. Even
so, a biological facts of life comes in to play.The more a teenager with a
member of the opposite sex, the more sexual desire can grow.
During teen age we just begin to learn how to control
these sexual feelings.It the way human beings are made and often when teens
engage in dating it might easily lead to the growth of other things in them. Until you older and more in control of your feelings, dating may simply be too
much for you to handle. Unfortunately, many teenagers find this out the hard
way. And this will always remains that dating often put teens under pressure to
grant unwanted display of affection.
When teenagers starts dating their immediate intentions
will not be to kiss or show affection its just to enjoy the pleasure of ones
company and talk, to enjoy being loved and to know how it feels. "with
time as a result of the closeness, seating together, hands will be healed and
kisses will start to flow.
TEENAGERS OFTEN FEEL
PRESSURED
TO DATE OR PAIR OFF.
WHY TEENAGE DATING IS BAD.
Remember when we started dating we didn't even hold hands
or kiss but little wonder, then, that dating often culminates in what sexual
relations. A survey of several hundred teenagers found that 87 percent of the
girls and 95 percent of the boys felt that sex was either "moderately
important or very important" in dating. However, 65 percent of girls and
43 percent of boys admitted that there had time on a date when they had sexual
contact even though they did not feel like it.
Some let their display of affection stop just short of
it. But what results when one is worked up emotionally and has no honorable
outlet for such feelings? Guaranteed frustration. And those frustrations are not
limited to sexual feelings.
SO-CALLED PLATONIC
RELATIONSHIP
OFTEN ENDS IN
HEARTBREAK.
AM I READY?
Young people do tend to "walk in the way of there
heart". Yet so often those "ways", which seem to be such fun,
end up bringing vexation and calamity.
Vexation-is being deeply troubled or sorely distressed
"calamity" donates a personal disaster. Both can make life miserable.
Does this mean then, that dating itself is a source of vexation and calamity? No. But it can be, if you date for a wrong reason, or at
a tender age.
HOW CAN I DITCH HIM
OR HER WITHOUT HURTING HER FEELINGS.
·
Get to
know yourself.
·
Limit
the time you spend together.
·
Learn to
be poised around people.
·
Share
your problem with your parents.
·
HOW TO GET READY BEFORE DATING.
HOW TO GET READY BEFORE DATING.
Have many types of
friends-old and young,single and married,male and female-you learn to be around
people, including those of the opposite sex, with much less pressure than on a
date. Further more associate with married couples. You gain a more realistic
view of marriage and relationship. Letter on you will be better prepared to
select a good mate and fulfill your own role in the game of relationship
PLEAD/CONCLUSION.
Parents see dangers to which you are blind. After all
they were young ones. They know what real problems can develop when two young
people of the opposite sex start spending lots of time together So if your
parents disapprove of your dating, do not rebel, likely they simply feel you
should wait till you are older.
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